Friday, May 19, 2006

Photogasm





A little break for some swimming. Where am I you ask? Behind the camera, naturally. No one gets to touch this.






Various photos of each of us at BaT Comics. I should get royalties for the plug.







Here's me looking like shit





Here's me in the shirt Drew gifted me. Thanks, bud!




During one of our weekly HeroClix tournaments, we had multiple players gang up against my Dark Phoenix and Galactus. Below are the end-of-turn results for each of the five turns it took for Galactus and Dark Phoenix to destroy everything nerdy in the universe.





Birthday Skate-Parties

During my work and school related hiatus, we attended a birthday party for one of the sons of our good friends Chris and Chrissy. Many photos and videos ensued. Here are the ones that are predoinantly my kids.










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Aeia Rolls Up the World


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There's this supremely addictive video game called Katamari Damacy which the kids and I play. This video is of Aeia acting out the video game in our kitchen with an inflatable globe while she sings the theme song.

Saturday, May 13, 2006

Breathing Now

The semester from hell is almost over. I've just finished grading the last of the papers I need to grade (though my boss is asking me to now pick up the slack for his much less-experienced and lazier TA. I'll have the time after I finish writing my finals, but I won't do it unless I can fit more breathing and relaxing time in while I do it. I've missed chatting along here and in e-mail too much. Though money, blessed money, is so necessary and helpful. Especially if I want to buy myself something nice for Denise to give me for my birthday. I see a case of the new HeroClix in my future. And as always, more DVDs.)

How messed up were the latest episodes of Lost and American Idol? I'm so pissed for Hurley--it's not nice of the Lost writers to do that to Hurley. Even on fantasy island the fat man gets no love.

Speaking of fat men, my waist is (only slightly) smaller and none of my pants are now staying up. The latter part of that is annoying.

Friday, May 05, 2006

Words from other Evans

I have "Evan Peterson" on Google Alerts. Every now and then I get a link that goes to an actual other "Evan Peterson" (as opposed to Evan blah blah blah ... Ruby Peterson). When these links lead to something worth reading, or something legible at all, I'll probably share them here. This is from the Iowa Junior College version of me:

http://www.iccc.cc.ia.us/collegian/opinion.asp?id=319

Evan Peterson
By Weighing out the problems of obesity

It seems that all we do as editorial writers is criticize and analyze. We look at society, find things that we aren’t particularly fond of, and complain about them in some attempt to get things to change. We bitch, moan, argue, and debate until we are blue in the face. But what most people don’t realize is that we can also be defenders of certain groups in culture today.

And besides those of us hopped up on pills for this, that, and the other, the largest group is made up of the large. We’ve listened to rants about childhood obesity and how we are becoming a fat nation addicted to fast food, but does anyone really stop and look at it from the point of the horizontally challenged? Being from this group at a petite 280 pounds, I find myself a particularly wonderful candidate to tackle this issue with the sensitivity and the political correctness that these people deserve.

The dangers are clear and spelled out all around us. If anything, this so-called epidemic has turned almost everyone into a doctor. They can look at an overweight person and spout off a million things that could go wrong with us. They can give us tips on how to cure our disease and feel like the Good Samaritan afterwards. But believe me, if someone is overweight, they know about it and don’t need a diagnosis from you. Furthermore, if someone is a little husky, they know that their health is at risk, but apparently they enjoy being overweight.

Why shouldn’t they? We always look at the bad things. But it’s true that overweight people have a lot more going for them than people give them credit for.

Some people see it as an urban myth or a stereotype, but the “jolly fat guy” has become a staple in any great group of friends. Worshiping at the church where Chris Farley is our savior, fat people always seem to have a witty line for any situation. Anything from “I’m watching my waistline. It’s getting easier to see everyday” to “Why have a six pack when you could have a keg?” makes the odd situation of being around a “voluptuous” person a little easier to stomach (no pun intended).

Also, what’s wrong with being in love with eating? Just because of a slight wiring difference, we don’t process our food the same and thus show our curves more. But, and this is just a personal opinion, I would much rather have a bit of bulk than look like an anorexic. Sometimes, being too skinny sets off more red flags than being overweight as shown in this season of “The Real World,” featuring a 94 pound woman on diet pills. What do people get out of being anorexic? At least if you are a little portly you can make money off of it. Take those people who down multiple pounds of food in mere minutes to make serious dough.

Perhaps it’s just this culture’s perspective. Recently, we’ve become aware of countries like Japan and China becoming larger. But isn’t that what those cultures admire? Sumo wrestlers that pull all kinds of women over there were those that ate a lot and got picked last for gym class. To borrow a line from “There’s Something About Mary,” “They pay for the pound over there. Kind of like tuna.” Their sports also reflect a better time. In those cultures, being large was actually a good thing since it meant that you actually had enough money to eat well. Skinny people would be looked down on as cretins.

Now I don’t want to seem like I am glorifying obesity. I do acknowledge that it should be held in check. For instance, I don’t think children should be subjected to that kind of lifestyle. Also, if it gets to where a person is having trouble moving around and they get to a point where they need the assistance of a motorized vehicle, that’s going a little too far. We’ve all seen the people who are so big they can’t even move. I’ve even heard the story of the woman who actually became welded to her couch through her excrement hardening and grafting to our skin. It’s disgusting and all, but it’s reality.

Why you may not agree with anything I’ve said here, to be honest, it’s the truth. And it extends to all facets of life. Pretty much if you take anything from this, just take that discrimination isn’t anything to cheer or jeer about. We’ve seen it in the past and it still threatens to tear us apart today. This is our generation’s civil rights struggle. Do the right thing.

Scary Comic Reccomendations

My buddy Chris wanted some rec's for horror genre comics. I now share them in lieu of having the free time to write something original this week. Almost at the light...

I haven't read any of the Silent Hill trades.

(And I give the movie a 3 out of 5)

There's good stuff out there, and a LOT of bad.

There's been a GLUT of zombie books since Walking Dead. Walking Dead is the only good one (Though Zombie King #0 is worth a look just for the scene of a zombie raping a cow; and the Shaun of the Dead adaptation is good, but not worth it if you have the movie...). Marvel Zombies is not horrific, but it is gor-tastic and extremely D-Level Cheeze (and written by Walking Dead's writer, Kirkman). REMAINS is the most decent non-Walking Dead zombie book and it's only 5 issues long. the Goon and Hellboy also fight zombies, but they're a lot more comedic adventure.

DC Comics' VERTIGO imprint is hit-and-miss in the horror department. Swamp Thing, which was always meant to be a horror book, was only good in that vein when Nancy Collins was writing it (yeah, I don't like Alan Moore's acclaimed run all that much). John Constantine Hellblazer is a wonderful book to look for in trades (or download as such)--Aim for the first ten issues, and then any story arcs written by Garth Ennis, Brant Morrisson, Mark Millar, Mike Carey. It's the character Keanu's Constantine movie is drawn from, though that movie sucked ass as far as adapting this book goes. Decent horror; the best occult book Vertigo has done. ALSO, my favorite is the Hellblazer mini-series titled SANDMAN PRESENTS: LOVE STREET

(a non-horror aside, if you liked Sandman, you should read the following "Sandman Presents" mini's/one-shots: Thessaliad; Merv Pumkinhead Agent of Dream; Thessaly Witch for Hire; Corinthian).

While not horrific, Y the Last Man is the best comic written period. And it is set in the apocalyptic dystopian horror genre.

Midnight Mass (the first series, NOT "Here there be Monsters) was great. Think X-Files but Mulder and Scully both believe and are married.

30 Days of Night (the first series) was the most original vampire story I've ever read. Though the synopses of both sequels were unappealing enough for me not to read them.

Joe R. Lansdale's Drive-In (and Drive-In 2 which JUST began) are GREAT end-of-the-world horror stories, but the art is a little dirty. Likewise, Joe R. Lansdale's By Bizarre Hands was a great few issue miniseries of single issue horror tales with crisper art. His name is in the title just as I present it if you go looking for it.

Laurell K. Hamilton's Anita Blake Vampire Hunter novel series is about to begin adaptation to comic form. The art looks very nice, hopefully the transition will be as well.

Shadowplay is hit-and-miss, but more often it's "hit."

Fell by Warren Ellis is great too, but more detectivey than scary.

The scariest comic of all is our President.

Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Happy Day

So you know that Dostoevsky paper I complained about and finished in super speed? Well, last night was the night it was returned to us and I got an A! His comments were actually legible for once as well and he called the paper excellent and my writing elegant. So I'm a wee bit giddy.

Friday, April 21, 2006

That Time Again

It's time for the seasonal purging of belongings to the gods of eBay. This week: comics. Lots and lots of comics. If I'm feeling up to it, I'll be adding "real" books before the weekend is out as well, and a few DVDs as well, most likely. Thanks for shopping.

Help Wanted


















The man pictured above is Bryan Scott Williams. He's currently 18 years old. He's about 5'9" give or take an inch or so, and 205-220 pounds heavy. He has brown hair. I don't remember his eye colour.

Bryan is currently wanted by authorities for molesting my son.

Bryan was last seen visiting his grandmother in Oregon, and he has since disappeared. She is not cooperating with law enforcement in locating him and as they have no other leads, I'm putting this out in case any of you out there should ever come across him.

Bryan is very slow, so he isn't likely to be found working in a skilled job. Likewise, he has poor communication skills; often direct statements made to him need to be repeated many times before he'll process them. His reading and writing are at grade school levels. He has a passion for video games, so you may find him in an arcade or in your home with your children playing video games with them, and hopefully only that. He has a history of dealing drugs, and that may be a likely occurence now as well. Likewise, he has very serious substance abuse problems of his own, as he's extremely abusive of alcohol and marijuana (since our knowing him, he may have moved on to harder drugs).

He has a brother and sister in California, so it is likely that he's either back in California or still in Oregon, as he does not have family elsewhere.

Bryan needs to be brought to justice for what he's done, and he needs to be found before he can hurt someone else's children. Please, if you should ever have any info as to his whereabouts, contact your local police department to turn him, and please contact Detective Harris with the Chico Police Dept. with any info you have: (530)897-5823

Sunday, April 16, 2006

Update

It is 4:50pm Easter Sunday and I am now officially beginning my Dostoyevsky & Religious Film paper, due tomorrow by 7pm.

I am absolutely without a clue as to how I'm going to pull this off as I have nothing to really say yet.

EDIT: 8:28 PM Easter Sunday and I'm done at 8 pages. Something like a new record for me.

If I never read Russian Literature again, I'll likely be happy.

New Meme

I got a new Meme, and it's from Drew:

Go to Wikipedia and look up your birthday (excluding the year). List three neat facts, two births and one death in your journal, including the year.


Events
1778 - American Revolutionary War: British troops abandon Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
1815 - Napoleonic Wars: Battle of Waterloo leads to Napoleon Bonaparte abdicating the throne of France for a second, final time
1981 - AIDS is identified.
1983 - Sally Ride becomes the first American woman in space

Births
1901 - Grand Duchess Anastasia Nicolaievna Romanova of Russia (d. 1918)
1942 - Sir Paul McCartney, English singer and songwriter (Beatles)

Deaths
1680 - Samuel Butler, English poet (b. 1612)
1902 - Samuel Butler, English writer (b. 1835)

My birthday is not a good day for dudes named Samuel Butler if they're British writers. Think on that when you name your kids, Brits!

Also, my birthday is apparently Autistic Pride Day as well.

Friday, April 14, 2006

I Want Some Latke

Happy Passover and Happy Good Friday peeps of the appropriate religions!

Mazel Tov and praise Mary and stuff.

Time to dye Easter Eggs and eat bunnies.

(anyone I haven't ticked off yet?)

Thursday, April 13, 2006

Stuff


To those of you who know about the atuff that had me so pissed off a few weeks ago that I was choosing not to blog about, I just want to let you know that things are progressing well, I'm at a place where I'm more pleased with how things are being done and the affected party is doing well--thank you.

And for the rest, sorry about the cryptic post

Of the Sighing and the Relieving

Finally, extremely tuckered, I am done grading papers (until the next, and last, batch arrives next week. I could so take a nap now.

But then I still have that stupid paper to write about that book I haven't finished reading. I fully plan to procrastinate on that one 'til Saturday or Sunday (it being due Monday). We'll see. No nerdgames this week because of Easter, so it'll give me a little more breathing room. Woo hoo.

So, did I mention I got to sneak away and watch Slither a couple weekends back? Fantastic movie, by the way. It's a good watch for anyone who enjoyed Shaun of the Dead even half as much as I did. Nathan Fillion makes me wish Firefly all the more...

Tuesday, April 11, 2006

Super-Quick Post

Hey lovelies!

30-some-odd papers left to grade. At the rate I'm going, I should hopefully be done by this time tomorrow night, otherwise I'll definitely be done by Thursday. Then all I have left to do is read Crime and Punishment and write a paper about it before class Monday night. Whew.

Sidebar: canceled tv show I had much love and high hopes for, Love Monkey, has been resurrected by VH1. Watch it biotches. For me.

Monday, April 10, 2006

Where It's At

How have you been? I've been completely buried in paper grading and it's driving me a little stir crazy. no end in sight

Friday, March 31, 2006

Denise 'n Rael


We haven't seen Denise in a while

Collage-o-Lash






I've been feeling a strong need to capture some pictures of my baby being happy. He's such a great kid. I love the top photo.

Thursday, March 30, 2006

Charity


I've reached the conclusion that I'm incredibly sick of the Christian Children's Fund and their constant requests for money. For just 80 cents a day little starving girl #1 can eat, go to school, get vaccinations...

And that's all great. Let me be clear that I'm all for charity. I'm all for little what'sername getting food, school and shots.

But I'm so sick of their pandering. Don't interrupt my Judge Judy reruns with 2 minutes of fly-harassed starving Ethernopians. Frankly, my 80 cents a day, if I had it to donate, would be donated locally. I think it's ethnocentric of me to say this, sure, but we should be caring for our own starving hudled masses before we're guilted into worrying about some poor Third World kid whose name has been stripped of them for a white-friendly Christian name and a doe-eyed photo op next to some well-fed spokesperson.

No matter where you live, your city has that section of town where the poverty is at, or that place where the homeless seem to congregate. If you want to help someone out, help your neighbor. For 80 cents a day you can buy a bushel of bananas and feed a handful of people; you can buy 8 packs of ramen noodles. You can save up for a week and buy a bum a blanket. And hey, after you're content helping your own backyard, if you still have riches to spare, little John Paul Salvadore Lopes Inkinbe Chu will still be waiting.

Aeia and Rael Today

Wednesday, March 29, 2006

Absence Makes the Heart Grow

Sorry I've been quiet the past week. Right now I am very behind and bogged down by schoolwork and grading papers. Hopefully by this time next week that won't be the case.

On a good note, last Saturday we played the first installment of my new superhero nerdgame at the Chrissesises' and it was great fun for me and seemed to have been quite a blast for all participants.

Monday, March 20, 2006

Nerdus Interruptus

This past Sunday's nerdgames was completely demoralized due to the absence of 5 of 8 players. It was RObert's one weekend a month with his daughter, so he was out-of-town with her visiting his mom. Kenn was still in England visiting his girlfriend. Chris and Chrissy didn't come for various reasons and Ian made a brunch date he "couldn't" get out of (his moving away date has moved up to mid-April too, the jerk).

This left me, Paul and Terry to face Denise's plans (plans which, per typical Denise were perhaps too strong for us to face were we all there). All I have to say to my fellow nerds who couldn't/wouldn't/didn't come: you missed out on a buttload of xp.

(We then also had to cancel the weekly Deadlands because Paul made a date with his girlfriend, Robert & Kenn were still gone...)

I really really needed the escapist outlets this weekend, so I'm glad Denise kept her game going despite the turn-out, and I'm glad I got to go out to the movies.

Also taught Denise and the Chrisses how to play Munchkin Saturday after the movie.

Movie Time

I'm actually going to write my review of this elsewhere, but I wanted to share that this past Saturday I went and saw V For Vendetta with my friends Chris, Jira and Ian.

Aside from the differences/changes from the comic (or, in some instances, maybe because of them), I loved this movie. I loved it. Naysayers be damned.

And funnily enough, it was the perfect escapist fiction for me to visit given this past week.

An Existential Moment


If you HAD to be one of these, and could choose, would you be ugly, poor, stupid or mean?
Ugly
Poor
Stupid
Mean
  
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I was going to ask this question and ask folks to respond in the comment field with their answers, but realized I would likely not get any of my anonymous lurkers to respond. However, if after you make your choice on the poll you want to share with me what you chose, and even why you chose it, I would love to see what discussion could arise from this.

I'll reveal the why later (and there are no clues to this answer in my intelligence post), but if someone asked me this question today, I'd choose "stupid."

Friday, March 17, 2006

Wasting Time


I've spent the last good hour or so doing online window shopping. As we all know, I love my gimicky t-shirts, and the ones here at Threadless are great. I know what I'm going to put on my birthday list in three months.

Checking Out His Chocolate Salty Balls


Unless you live under a rock, or don't care a whit about South Park news (which I expect is most of you), Isaac Hayes (apparently he was a famous soul musician or something back in the 70's, like anyone famous in the 70's is relevent now)(people, that was sarcasm)(yeesh), who provided the voice of South Park character "Chef" has asked to be released from his contract due to the insensitive way that the show treats religion.

"There is a place in this world for satire, but there is a time when satire ends and intolerance and bigotry towards religious beliefs of others begins," Hayes says. "Religious beliefs are sacred to people, and at all times should be respected and honored. As a civil rights activist of the past 40 years, I cannot support a show that disrespects those beliefs and practices."
--Isaac Hayes

Here's a dude that refered/refers to himszelf as "Black Moses" harping on a show's depiction of religion. A show that for 10 years held nothing back and satirized many, many religions. If this was such a problem for him, why quit now and not quit then? They hadn't satirized his "religion," Scientology at all during that time up until this past Fall in an episode where those crazy fictional Scientologists come to believe that Stan is the second coming of L. Ron Hubbard.

I love hypocrites.
I love spelling hypocrites.

Series co-creator Matt Stone had this response:

"This has nothing to do with intolerance and bigotry and everything to do with the fact that Isaac Hayes is a Scientologist and that we recently featured Scientology in an episode of 'South Park,' in 10 years and over 150 episodes of 'South Park,' Isaac never had a problem with the show making fun of Christians, Muslims, Mormons and Jews. He got a sudden case of religious sensitivity when it was his religion featured on the show."

So, I guess we can all hang our heads now at the departure of Chef and his chocolate salty balls.

I really really hope for a Scientologist follow-up episode dealing with Chef's departure.

Thursday, March 16, 2006

Rael




Rael had a doctor's appointment today for his regularly scheduled immunizations. He seems a wee bit out of it but generally still good natured.

Brainiac


A couple weeks back I told Chris I was planning to write a blog about intelligence (however pretentious it makes me out to be. I need some pretention right now).

What I'm really curious about is whether other people do the same thing, and to what degree, and I'm asking now in case I forget to at the end (or as a reading guide for when I ask again at the end--you decide).

When I was very young my IQ was tested, I was somewhere over 130 (I've since dropped, btw), deemed "gifted and talented" and put into a program of classes geared directly towards all of us now banded together gifted and talented kids. It was a couple years (say, until 5th grade) before I discovered being smart was a bad thing: you get picked on, the cool kids won't let you play with them, no one will let you play sports with them... I learned that being smart as a kid carries a big social stigma (I know, we all know, big surprise) (tangent: maybe that's part of what's wrong with our education levels--not just the teachers, government and parents suck, but maybe the kids are actively dumbing down to be less stigmatized. I tell these kids now: it don't work).

My response: dumb down. Now, I didn't dumb down at all in my school work. Still brought home the steady excellent grades (except P.E.; when you're a nerd, geek, whatever, no matter how much P.E. is graded on participation, you can't participate enough to earn a grade higher than a C--even if you excell at the P.E.) but I did dumb down.

I was afraid of sounding too smart. Classroom discussion on my part came to the bare minimum (often only when called on, despite my not raising my hand). No matter how much insight I felt I could add to discussion, I actively avoided participating. This is a problem I still have today. It doesn't matter how much I feel I can add to a class discussion, or how wrong/dumb/etc. I think someone's point is in a discussion--I won't chime in 99% of the time for fear of being recognized as one of the smart ones. I'm the only grad student in a film class peopled by vast idiots (ooh, my snob levels are rising). We discuss Freud and it's obvious they don't understand squat. I don't pipe in.

I often, in school, with peers, with complete strangers will actively dumb down my speech. I'll make longer simplistic explanations for things that could be much shorter (often enough, the person I'm doing this to will then rephrase what I tell them into the shorter, smarter version I avoided using--the nerds). (I just spent this entire post doing that, in fact: over explaining the simple: I pretend to be much more stupid than I actually am for fear of being recognized as smart).

Is this the lamest behavioural trait or what? Do you do it too?

Sniffle

I have a cold and sore throat and it sucks sucks sucks.

My great friend Aimee sent me a tin of chocolatey goodness for no reason other than "just because" and it was the perfect week for it. Those cherry cordial Hershey kisses are the best.

Got my first batch of this semester's papers yesterday, which will likely make me even more taciturn over the coming weeks on top of the last post (which I still won't be detailing right now. You can always e-mail me and if you're someone I feel I can/would turn to for support, I'll get back to you). I also learned he wants me working for him over the summer (a first) which is super groovy. Our pocketbook needs all the help it can get these days.

Anyway, I need to really find a positive focus for my mind right now.

TV Time:
Miss Sultry Voice (I guess her real name's Melissa McGhee) got voted off the American Idol island last night. She was one of my favorite voices, but she should have learned all her lyrics.

Three more people dead in 24 in two weeks. Wowies. Sopranos is back with a wee little bang. I'm trying to figure out the logic for keeping Junior alive all this time to begin with...

Scrubs...ah my darling Scrubs. Hilarious. Nice to see JD finally get the upper hand on Janitor.

I would complain about the whole no Survivor for two weeks crap we have this month, but a far better Survivor (Pearl Islands) has been rerunning three episodes every Wednesday on OLN, so I'm more than fed enough islandy goodness.

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Anger Management

Not going to get into specifics here (not because I can't or am being censored in any way, but because I choose not to for now), but all through all the crap that happened last summer with fostering, not once did I ever wish we had never fostered. I can honestly say I got to where I was glad we were done doing it, but had never wished we had never done it.

Today, I wish we had never been foster parents.

Tuesday, March 07, 2006

Graded

Got my Freud paper back last night: B+/A-. I wish I knew what merited the grade, but his comments are completely illegible, so I have to go to see him at office hours.

Saturday, March 04, 2006

Late Post

Late in that I meant to post this two weeks ago and have been lazy about getting my camera hooked up to download the images.




My friend Paul's band, Fingers of Passion, played at a local benefit show two weeks ago (benefiting what, I don't know, but it was all-ages so there were lots of younger folks there, which was kinda weird and fun) along with Social Concern, Kids With Head Lice and two other bands I didn't catch the names of/can't remember.



I really liked Social Concern--an all female punk band from Redding. Gotta try to find more of them. Fingers played great as usual. Not the best quality, but I'm trying to upload a short video clip of Fingers. Shortly after I captured the video and photos I got blind-sided by the roving band of moshers.



Paul's the drummer; Steve-o is the bass player (guy in the fedora); Dan is the lead singer/guitarist. As an fyi.


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Childhood at a Price

Am in the ongoing process of listing books, comics, rpg books, HeroClix, etc. on eBay. Check them out if interested. Thanks!

Block Party


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Saw Dave Chapelle's Block Party last night with the guys & Walker. It was ok. If you like concerts on DVD and want to shell out movie theater prices to see one, then have at it.

Me, I could have waited for it to hit video, and would have had I known exactly what it was.

That said, it was enjoyable. I got to reconnect with my youthful love of rap music and when Chapelle was making jokes, it was funny. Frankly, I could have done with a little more Chapelle.

Monday, February 27, 2006

Done

Finally finished that stupid paper and after I read two books tomorrow for Wednesday's class I am so taking a couple days off to finally relax.

On the nice front: no cough, cough, wheeze, wheeze.

I Hate Sigmund Freud

Still working on this paper. It's an incredible creativity drain.

Saturday, February 25, 2006

Sunnier and Chirpier?

Not really, but definitely less depressed.

I put a bunch of comics on eBay and they aren't exactly selling well. Which is only a slight bummer, but there's always relisting and finances always seem to bounce back through the tighter times.

A nice bout of RPGing last weekend helped, as will some this weekend.

I have this stupid paper on Frued, Nietsche and guilt I have to write this weekend as well, so I'm still a little stressed out (as I always am when I have major homework due and haven't done it yet). This film class gives me more reading than some of my old literature classes ever did (up next is Dostoevsky and Crime and Punishment). Yawn.

I have to leave shortly to run the HeroClix tourney at the comic shop, and then we're nerdgaming at the Chrisses' tonight. Stuff to keep my mind in fun places.

Thanks to all the well-wishers.

Thursday, February 23, 2006

the Summer of 1995

1995's summer was when I pulled up stakes because of Shelley Barker and high-tailed it to my brother's house seven hours south (more like nine now) in San Luis Obispo. It was also the summer I turned 21. It was the last summer where I was semi-athletically fit. I quickly took a job at one of the city's McDonalds food chains where I worked from 4:30 am to 1pm.

Shortly after my arrival there, two girls from Iowa, "Gina" and "Cassie", came out to SLO together and started working with me. The three of us became quick friends, as did one of our managers, Mark and a waitress from a real restaurant whose name was Rondi (actually, her name wasn't Rondi, and I haven't changed it here. She was under 21 and carried an ID she'd found with a girl who looked like her. The girl's name was Rondi and while I knew her real name, we all called her Rondi so frequently that years later, I can only remember her alias). The five of us partied pretty much every night. Not always all five of us together, but always some combination of the five of us. Shelley had found me and was phone-stalking me during the wee hours (as I was never there, it was really pissing my brother's wife off that I couldn't get her to stop calling at 1am every night), so I made sure I was never home to hear from her.

My typical day would be:
4:15: wake and rush to work
4:31-1: work
1:15-5: usually I would nap, often at the local illegal nude beach
5-6: eat
6-7: shower and prep for going out
7-2: party
2-4:15: sleep

I miss being young and being able to thrive on such a fucked up party and sleep schedule. When I go out with the boys in present day, I'm often hurting the next day.

I was incredibly, incredibly stupid that summer and I'm extremely fortunate I'm still alive and disease-free. I've no idea how frequently I had unsafe sex, but it was enough to really sober me up when I saw the film Kids that August. I also drank and drove 2-3 or so times and was very fortunate not to hurt anyone. It was all bliss, but as the cliche goes--all good things must end. Cassie grew incredibly homesick and announced she was moving back to Iowa.

Gina and I made a go at locating an apartment together, but it didn't happen. I packed all of my possessions into my truck and moved back north, into the spare room at one of my freinds' mom's house in Gridley. By December I'd went back down under the guise of visiting my brother in order to find Gina. I couldn't find her. What few people we knew together that I could find were far from helpful in giving me info on how to reach her. I went back home figuratively shooting myself for having run off in the first place. In April of '96, I was visiting my brother. He had found out that Gina had been driving with a friend and that they had been hit by a drunk driver at the same junction of highways where James Dean had crashed and passed. Gina and her friend had both died in the crash. The crash occured late that previous November. To this day I hold a lot of anger towards the people who knew about her death and wouldn't tell me.

Wednesday, February 22, 2006

Geez, Where've I Been?

Sorry for no posts the past few days.

To be quite short: I've been a tad depressed and stressed the last week or two. Add to that a heaping of schoolwork this week and I'm a bit overwhelmed. Hopefully a sunnier, chirpier me will be back and regular next week after my last paper is due and some ebay auctions have ended.

Peace

Saturday, February 18, 2006

A Present For Chrissy

To my good friend Chrissy, hopefully this can help you with your tearing up "problem." Even though it is something I love about you, mi amiga.


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Stressed

I hate money. I hate having it; I hate needing it; I hate it.

That said, just found out our income tax refund is being taken to offset Denise's student loan debt, and as much as we needed some of that money, it really sucks.

SO I'm in a foul mood.

Thursday, February 16, 2006

Humanimals

Back in the State of the Union address, Georgie Pordgie railed against cloning because those crazy Godless scientists would use the technology to make human-animal hybrids, as if it would be their priority to splice a turtle shell to a soldier's back or something...

And then today I finally got around to watching The Island. The ethics behind the plot aside (and I'd grow me a new body with two whole lungs in a heartbeat), why would anyone want to make humanimals when they could make a killing selling "product" like Ewan McGregor and Scarlet Johansson?

Just think of the money that could be made, politicians.

Fade Away


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I'm sure this isn't a quandary unique to myself: how a person or people can be such a part of your life one day and then just drift away. There doesn't always have to be a reason, either.

As a younger child, my best friends were Mike Stoney and Lincoln Joseph. We spent every day together, in school, after school, weekends. Inseparable. Drugs ultimately took Lincoln out of my life, but he lasted longer than Mike, who simply faded away for no reason. Adolescence brought a friendship with Joey Biggs so strong we felt truly brotherly towards each other; after I was the best man at his wedding the inevitable fade came again. Others come and go...when they're here, a part of you, the bond can be so intense, and then, even without any incident, a move perhaps, the total fade out.

This last year I've seen a decent number of friends fade away (Adj, Adam, Kel...). In May, Ian is going to move away to his sister's and that'll be the end (and I can see it making the fade occur throughout our entire group). Chrissy graduates June-ish and I expect her to get a great job somewhere else and move with Chris and the boys, and history has made clear what that means. And of course I want the best for them, for all of my friends.

Today I'm just feeling a little bit maudlin.

Monday, February 13, 2006

The Return of Cough, Cough, Wheeze, Wheeze?

Or cough, cough anyway?

I've had this cough again for some time. The doctors early on had me do a CT scan again to make sure everything was still fine post-surgery and everything was. This was back in early September or so. Cough got worse the past couple weeks while I dealt with an ear infection and cold. Now they're gone but cough's still here and a bit worse.

I need to call and get myself a dr. appointment, and hope I get a competent doctor, to check on this cough.

Sunday, February 12, 2006

Hey Julie,


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I so love Scrubs. Not only is it the funniest show on tv (now that Arrested Development is gone), but it's a constant source of great new and retro music. In two weeks we've had Kung Fu Fighting, the Safety Dance and this gem by Fountains of Wayne. I dedicate this one to pal Julie Haehn.

Suddenly he wakes near 3 am

body is super tired but brain wants to stay awake. ugh to nth degree. sleepyness soon please

Friday, February 10, 2006

Puck It


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Given the whole gambling scandal, I wonder if Goldfinger still feels the same.

Sigh, just when I thought hockey might get back to normal.

A Bone to Pick

Ok, nerds are easy targets, but seeing as how most writers were more likely to be nerds than jocks, I'd expect maybe a little more sympathy when you see them in the media (oh wait, I bet these folks are self-hating nerds).

Last night's episode of Bones dealt with a plot involving a group of nerds who play their nerdgames live-action style (I won't get into defining that here. LARPing is a bit beyond me) and one ends up dead.

There is no sympathy played out for the other characters. They're all caricatures of nerdiness a la Comic Shop Guy from the Simpsons. Boreanaz's character even refers to them as "the type of nerds who burn their school down." Unless you're a particular mentally unbalanced person I know, you should understand how insulting that is (but if you need help, imagine me saying "Southerners are the type of Christians who burn down black churches;" which is wrong on so many levels). The vast majority of nerdgamers, even those who LARP, are not the sort of reality-challenged dolts who live their lives as if their characters are reality and their real lives aren't--despite what this show says to the contrary (when I was playing CJ in Ian's deadlands game, I didn't go around pretending I was a 16 year-old cross-dressing illiterate female Catholic gunslinger).

I get it. It's fun to poke fun at nerds. Go ahead. But don't be so blatantly ass about it.

One of their other attacks on nerddom should really insult everyone with a brain. Deschanel's character, to one of her underlings, at one point in the story says, with shocked revulsion, "you fantasize? I thought you were smart."

Remember this folks, only stupid people have fantasies.

Thursday, February 09, 2006

My Lifelong Love Affair with Nerdiness (long)

Chris, over in his blog, recently gave me a bit of props in this post of his which discusses some of the xomics he considers great. And asked his readers to come here and pester me for reading suggestions (hey, go for it, folks). It's been a long week, and between the ear infection and school, kinda tiresome, so I thank Chris for giving me the kernal of an idea on posting here.

So here is my long-ish diatribe on comic books (sans any pumping of specific books) and other nerdiness. No matter how cool or grown-up I ever became, or didn't, I've always embraced my nerdiness as well.

As with most things, I don't really remember much prior to when I was hit by a car at age five. I do remember I had comic books back then--something Superfriends-y as I remember the Wonder Twins as more than just tv. But that's all. My first real memory of comics was at my grandmother's house. I was laid up in a body cast due to the aforementioned kid-car collision and she read a comic to me called Legion of Super-Heroes (this is/was a DC Comics title about a group of teenaged super heroes in the 30th century fighting intergalactic crime alongside a time travelling Superboy and Supergirl ('til the 1980's anyway)). I remember my grandmother having some debate over how to pronounce "Legionnaires," but I've come to realize this was her helping me learn to read and understand new words, not her being unable to pronounce "Legionnaire." My favorite super hero was a dude named "Karate Kid" (everyone was a "boy," "girl," "lad," "lass" or "kid" back then, and hokey as these codenames were, they are *it* for me--"Sun Boy" seems fairly straightforward in what he can do; how many non-comic readers can tell me what Speedy and Nightwing's powers are without looking them up?

Karate Kid was a Legionnaire who had no super-powers. He was just a bad-ass kung fu master with a knack for finding the weak points in anything. Maybe it was a reaction to my being laid up, but here was a guy who, powerless, would hold his own alongside his buddies and save the universe issue after issue. This level of humanity made him accessible to me (quick aside--Drew, did you see the latest issue of the latest reboot where we see Collossal Boy's family home? They're still Jewish!).

Other favorites of that time were Supergirl (through my exposure to her in the Legion book; apparently her own book was very hokey, but I've never read one) and the Flash (always attracted to the superspeed characters, hence Rael's middle name).

One of the nicest things my mom did for me was to let me keep buying comics books, and while I didn't have complete runs as a kid, I followed Flash and the Legion of Super-Heroes pretty regularly. Then, in the early '80s, a seven month span of comics almost revulsed me enough to send me packing for good (instead they just sent me packing away from DC for a decade). In a seven month stretch, comics had their first "cross-over" event in a limited series called Crisis on Infinite Earths. During this cross-over, the Flash was killed and Supergirl was not only killed, but erased from existence. During this time, Karate Kid was killed off as well. I was a pretty stunned eight year-old; it felt like DC was telling me they didn't like me by killing off all my favorite characters. Not long after, I discovered Kitty.

An issue of Uncanny X-Men caught my eye (issue #176 for those who want to keep track of these things). It had a facial close-up of two normal looking people--a red-headed chippee and a brunette dude in rose-tinted glasses. The issue had no costumes and told an adventure of soem dude named Scott Summers who was on his honeymoon with his wife Maddie (my current loathing of Cyclops will come another time). Their plane goes down and he has to save them from a giant octopus. I was hooked and scratched up the change for a few back issues, including a book where some funky sewer dweller with bad complexion kidnaps a teenaged girl named Kitty Pryde and tries to make her his bride (apparently Joss Whedon shares mine and Drew's Kitty fixation as he notes it himself when asked and she is part his inspiration for all of his girl-power characters like Buffy, River and Kayleigh). "Professor Xavier is a Jerk!" and the "Brood Saga" cemented Kitty in as my replacement comic fixation. At 13, she was older than me, but again my means for relating, as I got her angst. Kitty, and her best friend Illyanna, were my fictional guides through childhood. Their stories were my escape. In my early teens, Illyanna got killed off, and good writers quit writing X-Men stories with Kitty in them and I slowly drifted back into DC land (and aside from keeping up with X-Men, that's where I stayed, mostly).

As I grew older, DC introduced a "mature readers" line of comics. Primarily not super-hero, and fairly heavy on the supernatural with an abundance of British writers who liked to write grown-up (note: not pornographic comics; I've never owned one of those. These are all pg13 to R rated fare) stories, they had a growing appeal. As an adult, books like Hellblazer (which the film Constantine is based on), Sandman, House of Secrets and Books of Magic were my thing. Somehow, I couldn't make myself not by super-hero comics, but I bought fewer and liked even fewer.

While there's a kid in me who will always hold certain superheroes and their stories dear, for the most part, I find super hero books nowadays to be more drek than anything. I cherish the memory of my childhood and early adolescent comics. Comics are so much more than super-heroes and you should give one a try.

I'd be happy to help make a suggestion for you.

Wednesday, February 08, 2006

Assorted Camera Captures



Another photo from Aeia's birthday party--the kids decorating cupcakes.



Aeia, Lash and Rael taken late January.



Rael in the "Level 1 Human" onesie that Drew bought for him (thanks!)



Aeia taking her first picture with her new Polaroid camera.

Sunday, February 05, 2006

Birthday's Past


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Saturday was Aeia's 6th birthday. While nobody came who didn't RSVP (and we only invited people her own age on short notice), we had a lot better turn out for her birthday than I expected (given said short notice and lower turn-out at Lash's parties).

I was afraid we wouldn't have enough activities ready for the kids, and came to discover that when bunches of five and six year olds (and a couple older) congregate, they're pretty good at finding their own ways to be noisy and entertained beyond whatever you plan.

Aeia had a great time, which is what matters most.

Thursday, February 02, 2006

They Should Be Recruited by the FBI

Initially, I chalked my ex, Shelley's stalking prowess as the mad skills of the mentally deranged (a thesis that does seem to grow as of late--all the craziest people I know seem to also be the best stalkers), but something's happened to make me question that theory.

Maybe Shelley's psychosis isn't what made her a great stalker; maybe it's her religion (she being a Mormon and I being an inactive one).

When we moved back in September, I got this form letter in the mail from the LDS Church. It had my name, birthdate and address and asked if I, living at my new address, happened to be the same dude. Thinking it the easiest way to close that chapter of my life, I checked the box indicating "No, I am not the droid you're looking for" and mailed it back to them.

Fast forward to a couple weeks ago and two of the local missionaries are at my door. They're asking for me by name and want to know if there is anything they, or the church, can do for me and mine. I'm too polite and sent them packing nicely. What I learned was, my answering the "no" box meant nothing; they continue to have me as a registered member of the local ward and they know how to find me. This last is most scariest if Shelley ever has another psychotic break and decides we're "meant to be together" again.

(I've actually been putting off this post because someone I'm friendly with in real life, who recently revealed themself as a reader of this blog, is also LDS and I felt weird about blogging this. Of course, this person is not a psychotic or a stalker, nor do I really think all Mormons are--but apparently they'd be pretty good at it if they wanted to)

Wednesday, February 01, 2006

Sick

Am congested and have an ear infection. It sucks.

First Local Join Me Project

On Saturday, February 4th there will be a collection drive for blankets, sleeping bags, coats and tents that are clean and in good condition. These items will be donated to the people of Pakistan. The organizers (Project Hope or Project Save or somesuch) could use a few extra hands. Anyone who has some time is welcome to JOIN ME at P.V. High School to help sort the incoming donations. The collection will run from 9:00 am to 3:00 pm, but even if you can only spare a couple hours in the morning or afternoon it will be appreciated.

Saturday evening at 5:00 pm Joinees (and prospective Joinees!) are encouraged to gather at the Graduate to celebrate our good deed! Hope to see everyone there (even if you can’t make the morning event).

Ryan will have “JOIN ME” T-Shirts available soon. White shirt, black print on the front – “JOIN ME!”. Cost will be $6.25 each and they should be ready Friday, just in time for the project.


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School Work

Had my first meeting of Religion in Film on Monday. We watched Woody Allen's Crimes and Misdemeanors--my first time with this movie. Not bad. Even though I already own some of the remaining movies we'll be watching this term, I'm really looking forward to seeing them and putting them into the context of the course: Grand Canyon; Changing Lanes (ok, I might not be looking forward to being Afflecked as much as the rest); Magnolia (another I actually haven't seen; Jacob's Ladder; Breaking the Waves; Do the Right Thing; Before the Rain; and Three Kings (I'd rather see how he tackles other Russell films such as Spanking the Monkey or I heart Huckabees).

We're allowed to bring guests to the movie nights, so Chris, or other local readers, if you ever want a Monday night out from the daily hum-drum, you're welcome to come along.

Sunday, January 29, 2006

Now With Moving Pictures


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I'm testing this out. If it works, I'll start posting the occasional family video or personal video post semi-occasionally. This trial run is an older video of Lash playing with his Hulk Hands from his 2004 birthday.

Thursday, January 26, 2006

Quick Update to Last Post

Yep, I definitely have taken the Ren.Lit. class before, so I dropped it and added a class called Religion in Film. Hopefully it'll be interesting.

School's In

The spring semester started for me yesterday. With two 3-hour classes back-to-back, Wednesday is going to be a long long day for me.

First up was a class called Form and Function on writing fiction. It studies writing and has you practice creative writing, but doesn't have the workshop element to it that a standard creative writing class has (I've taken the writing poetry version of this class in the past). It seems it'll be fun and so I wish it were the second class and not the first, to help recoup my energy. There's a student in there I have some concerns about, but I won't go into further detail until I know I'm not being paranoid.

My second class, a study in Renaissance Literature, I began to realize that I might have already taken the class and simply forgotten it. The class reading list was 99% familiar to me. If I have, it'll suck for me as I have to jockey for new classes.

Weekend Update

I know, this being Thursday, the weekend update is a little late...

Saturday, the Chrisses had us over for dinner (40 clove garlic chicken, collard greens and bread--yummy, with tofu chocolate pie for dessert--more yummy) and games. Denise, Chrissy and Chris' sister, J, played Scrabble for a while while Chris introduced me and the kids to the wonder that is Katamari (more specifically, the PS2 game We heart Katamari). That video game is sooo addicting we went out and bought it for Aeia's birthday the next day (and bought ourselves the presursor--Katamari Damacy--for everyone to play while we wait for Aeia's birthday and the receipt of her birthday presents. We ended with the kids falling asleep to Never Ending Story while the adults played two games of Bell Bottom Bad-Asses on the Mean Streets of Funk. Nice fun nerdiness.

Friday, January 20, 2006

Tag, Chris! You're It.


Back in this post, you said "I'll get one when you get one..."

Well, you're up. I'm thinking of some kanji on the back of my neck next.

Wednesday, January 18, 2006

Musings

Over Winter Break I had a mini-marathon of Natalie Portman movies. One gave me a wee thought:

It kind of seems to me like the part of George W. Bush as POTUSA is based on, at least a tad bit, Jack Nicholson's POTUSA in Mars Attacks. They definitely came off very similar. Coincidence?

Nine Down

Today was our ninth wedding anniversary. We didn't do anything special for it--it falling on a Tuesday and all (we might get a sitter and go out Saturday). The kids and I got Denise some flowers and cookies (and I added a book and dice).

Not a card, phone call or e-mail from any friends in the know or family, though so that kinda blew.

Monday, January 16, 2006

ABC's

A - Age of first kiss: Romantic? Can't remember--preteen. Platonic? I'm sure I was kissed as a baby.
B - Band listening to right now: Okkervil River
C- Crush on: Natalie Portman and Ewan McGregor
D - Dad's name: David Alan Peterson
E - Easiest person to talk to: Rael
F - Favorite Song: Ooh, this is so hard, and is bound to be changed every few days. Psychokiller by the Talking Heads.
G – Greatest Love: My kids
H- Hometown: I can't really say that I ever had one. We moved a lot.
I – Instrument: My instrument is my mind. But I love singing and still plan to learn guitar.
J- Junior High: Anna L. McKinney
K - Kids: I've got three, and if you read this blog regularly, you already know this.
L - Longest car ride ever: Though I was too young to remember it--California to Colorado; in memory--California to Salt Lake City.
M - Mum's name: Karen
N – Nicknames: Dave; Dusty has one for me that I won't share here
O - One wish: All I want is peace in the Middle East... (in-joke aside, my one wish is that my kids are raised full of happiness and love)
P- Phobias: Remission
Q - Quote(s): These were the best years of our life. At least that's what they told us. Personally, I hated high school. I hated all of you and I hope you all rot in hell. (AND) That's life. If nothing else, its life. It's real, and sometimes it fuckin' hurts, but it's sort of all we have. (AND) My mom always says that, when she can see I'm like working something out in my head, she's like, 'you're in it right now' and I'm looking at you're telling this story, and you're definitely in it. (Three quotes from two movies. And I just want to say this to you, my readers: be in it right now, always)
R - Reason to smile: Love
S – Something You Love to Do: Play
T – Time you woke up today: 8a.m.
U – Unknown fact about me: I'm addicted to dvds; oh wait, everyone knows that. Hmm... I'm not telling any.
V - Vegetable you hate: Cauliflower
W - Worst Boyfriend/Girlfriend? Shelley Marie Barker
X - X-rays you've had: I've been x-rayed head to toe--more than once on some occasions.
Y - Yummy food: Fry bread
Z - Zodiac sign: Gemini

Sunday, January 15, 2006

Blurred

Something Lighter: Nerdgaming

Last night Denise and I nerdgamed at the Chrisses'. Had a lot of fun despite having to maim John's character in order to save it. I missed the previous session due to previous engagement at Ian's birthday party, so I missed out on John's character already sacrificing his eyesight for the good of the group. After last night, he can no longer clap (what is a blind one-armed archer to do?). I think one of the most interesting aspects of this particular gaming group for me is that some 13 years ago I ran the games that led up to the adventure Chris is now putting us through. It's like watching another director handle the sequel to one of your own opuses and enjoying it thoroughly. Though sometimes frustratingly. Chris can be much more esoteric than me at times.

More...

I was up quite late Thursday night slash Friday morning with my friend Aimee who is dealing with a hard loss of her own. Aim, you're in my thoughts right now, and if there's anything I can do for you, don't hesitate to let me know.

Imaginary Heroes


I just watched this movie on HBO a couple days back, and felt a bit cathartic. Here's a snippet of the review written by George Schmidt on imdb.com:


Why does a family fall completely apart when a serious crisis occurs?

Well in the case of the Travis family it is the shocking, out-of-nowhere sudden horrific suicide by their eldest son Matt (Pardue), a star athlete with nothing but a bright, shiny future ahead who inexplicably offs himself sending his relatives into a whirlwind of emotions (and lack of to boot). Sharp tongued yet surprisingly loving mother Sandy (Weaver, the best thing about the film) resorts to smoking marijuana when she's not dodging the next door neighbor (O'Connell) ; ineffectual father Ben (Daniels in the trickiest performance – making an asshole likable) whose undying love for his dead son sends him into the deepest depths of depression and lashes out at his remaining brood; college age sister Penny (Williams) who attempts to anchor her grief in brief return visits only to party with blinders on and namely middle son Tim (Hirsch) who just is trying to move on with the whole affair and not dwelling on it as best he can yet still getting himself into a series of situations leading to a fall he may not be able to recover from.


That saves me a lot of energy trying to rehash the plot here for y'all.

I left my viewing of it wondering if I could, or should, purchase it for my aunt Deb. On one hand, I think it could speak to her very powerfully. On the other, I think it might piss her off a bit. While I'm not extremely close with most of my family, avoiding the creations of emotional shitstorms is still a pretty good idea.

A bit over ten years ago, my cousin Matt took his own life (a chilling parallel to the movie for me, and ultimately what makes me think of this right now at all). This is literally the first I've ever written or talked about this. When it happened, I was very busy being the strong one every relative around me could lean on. The one person I tried to turn to for support of my own, my ex Shelley Barker refused to give any support because his death was suicidal. This was the end of our relationship, and the beginning of her years of stalking me. I'm digressing.

The first years after his passing, my aunt and uncle began spending a lot more attention on me and my situation in life than they ever had previously. Whether true or not, it felt like they were using me as a sort of surrogate to their parental feelings and expressions. My response was to distance myself from them emotionally, and then once I moved to Chico, physically. As I write this, I realize this is when I began closing myself off from most everyone else in my family as well (save for my grandmother, with whom I've always been closest).

Somehow, I never dalt with the death of Matt. Watching this film was somehow both a wake-up to this fact, and an instrument of letting go. I don't know if I'll begin reconnecting with family more now or not. At this point, I'm not even sure what my point is in writing this post at all.

In my life, I've lost two family members (whom I knew personally), one best friend and one love. Each has affected me in such different ways. I'm now able to feel a warmth when I think of Matt, when I used to just feel empty.

Friday, January 13, 2006

Kids

It's funny sometimes the things kids will worry about. Aeia is strong in her convictions not to jump on the furniture/bed in her room or Lash's. Not because it's the rules, mind you, but because she's afraid of crashing through the floor.

Rael started mimicking Denise on his toy drum today. He'll be walking soon too. Scary.

Tuesday, January 10, 2006

Jacketed

My grandmother, the loving and giving person she is, sent me a new leather jacket as a late holiday gift. I think it's swell, and really appreciate it.

Now, she says that there was something I'd written in a blog posting about my childhood that suggested this purchase to her...I've spent the last hour or so searching my archives and I'm at a loss...

Regardless, I love it. And I needed it. The last really good, really warm jacket I got (interestingly enough, also a gift from my grandmother)was stolen by Denise and I never get to wear it anymore. I resigned myself to sweatshirts and such. Now I have jackety goodness again and I don't plan to let Denise borrow it.

Inking Possibilities

A year ago, I posted this post about getting a tattoo. I still haven't gotten around to getting one, but I've added new possibilities as I near a likely day of finally doing it:
1. A feather quill to symbolize the writing.
2. Something completely self-designed

Break Time's Over

Lash and Aeia started back in at school again today. FINALLY the winter break is over for them. This last week or so they've really been climbing the walls and driving me a little up the wall as well. Already, now that they're back in school, moods and behaviours are improved.

I Am Jack's Bewilderment

I didn't realize my post about Scrubs would screw up my template so badly.

Oops.

Saturday, January 07, 2006

Maintained

Toilet's fixed.

Friday, January 06, 2006

Slow Maintenance Thursdays

One of our toilets is on the fritz and our management folks aren't exactly being prompt about it. Thankfully, we have another fully functional one, but it can be annoying to run downstairs in the middle of the night. Better fix it tomorrow.

Sunday, January 01, 2006

Darkening

After years and years, I've grown a little bored of being green haired. Knowing me, it'll be green again after I tire of the break from it, but for now, I've dyed my hair black. So far, it's brought positive reactions from those to see it, which is cool. I'm still getting used to not being an unnatural hue.

Meme of the New Year

I stole this meme from a friend as a wrap-recap to 2005.

Take the first sentence from the first entry of each month for the year and post it again.

January:
As many of you know, I've been faithfully re-reading the Dark Tower series, and first reading the last three books in the series (all released in the past year), far and beyond my favorite story of Stephen King's.

February:
I do so love the BBC show Coupling.

March:
Sometimes it's really aggravating.

April:
In 1988 DC Comics gave its fans the opportunity to vote on the fate of one of its comic book characters: the second Robin the Boy Wonder, Jason Todd.

May:
For some reason I think I should thank Braz King for this.

June:
Saw dr. today about the CT from Tuesday.

July:
Saw War of the Worlds on Friday with the Chrisses.

August:
Monday was Lash and Aeia's first day back to school.

September:
Ultimately, today was a good day.

October:
For the past three weeks we haven't had our Sunday night Deadlands game.

November:
We had two players not show up to Ian's Deadlands game this past Sunday, and we had a major battle.

December:
Instructions: Copy and paste the questions to your blog (with your answers, not mine), and tag at least three others to do the same.



And with this one, I tag no one. But do it if you fee like it.

First Post!

(of 2006 anyway)

I'm going to have soooooo much trouble remembering not to write "o5" on all of my checks and correspondence for a good few months.

So how was everyone's New Years'? I have to admit, mine didn't start out the greatest (but it all works out swell in the end). When Chrissy called to let me know that we would all be nerdgaming for New Years, I was immediately down. Gaming was really not what I wanted to do for New Year's (and to be my opposite, it was immediately right up Denise's alley), but if I say I'll be there, I'll be there and we went. In the end we gamed, and I had a good time despite myself. As far as nerdgaming goes, it was fun, and the kids all had a great time playing and watching movies.

(Here we have Rael in our friend Stan's arms, reaching for the nerdgame book Chris is reading. Rael enjoyed being passed around to a lot of adults for attention).

By midnight, Denise was tired, Rael was tired... so after the clock turned over to the new year, we ended up rolling home. The college kids in our complex were deep in partying when we got here, so it was noisy.

It also was a good thing we came home instead of staying to sleep over (as originally planned) as we were woken up this morning by Denise's sister Autumn on the phone announcing she was in town and coming over with Christmas gifts. She had her latest beau with her, and she looks like she might be swelling just a little... and the visit was nice, which is HUGE coming from Denise's side of the family.